February 4th, 2010

Hanging out the astrology shingle

NoraJean_Astro-ServiceI’ve been working all day on building an astrology section to my website. I’ve made the decision to hang out my shingle as an astrologer. It was a difficult decision and took a long time to make it because I’ve spent the last 10 years of my life working with polymer clay and teaching it online for free.

I’ve also been studying astrology since 1966 and been doing more astrology readings lately than selling polymer clay items.

The question was could I do both?

My son’s friend, John Van Dinther, is a small business consultant and he’s been generous enough to help me get perspective on this decision. He feels I can do both.

He had me sit down and write out the 10 things I need to do in order to make money doing astrology and peddling polymer clay. I did that. Then he wrote a list of things for me to do on top on those two lists.

On the top of my “astrology” list was build a web section letting the world know that I’m an astrologer and I’m open for business doing readings. My concern was what would be the fee? I’ve done readings for free. I’ve done readings for barter. I’ve done readings for money.

We settled on the fee being negotiable. If people want to know about a specific part of their life, e.g. money. I can do a short reading focusing on their Saturn, which rules career, their 10th house, which also rules career, transiting Saturn and if that is impacting on their birth chart.

I just did a reading like that for a lady. Most of the counseling was done on IM in FaceBook, before I even cast her chart. I’ve found that people need an objective observer, who cares about their well being, to talk out their problems. Often a different point of view and encouragement to make the changes that need to be made is what they need. The astrology is like support to that counsel.

When I was explaining what I was planning on doing to Hilda, my 96 year old neighbor, I put it to her this way. “You do music, your speciality is Bach, right?” she say I’m right. “You don’t claim to know all the music there is nor do you want to.” she agreed. “What I do is specific as well. I do birth charts, transits and synastry.” and I explained to her what the difference was between those types of readings.

Birth Charts: Where the planets and the Sun and Moon were located when you were born. A lot of skeptics say that those heavenly bodies can’t make a physical effect on a person’s body. That’s true. Astrologers aren’t saying that there is a physical effect on a body. It is more like synchronicity: the experience of two or more events that are causally unrelated occurring together in a meaningful manner.

Transits: Take a look at where the planets, Sun and Moon are located currently, over head. Compare those to the birth chart to see influences. In a birth chart there are degrees of closeness or separation that form “aspects” and these have different levels of strength. Those birth chart “aspects” are one’s life work.  Transits form “aspects” to a birth chart. Transiting aspects are temporary issues to address. They can be short like aspects from the Moon or longer in duration, like aspects from the slower moving planets. These transiting aspects are the emotional and psychological environment we find ourselves in, for a while.

Synastry: Just as birth charts have “aspects” and there are transiting “aspects” there are also “aspects” that occur between two people’s charts. The two people could be parent and child, siblings, boss and employee, and the most asked for is between lovers. Knowing yourself and a bit about who you are interacting with, knowing the astrological dynamics between the two of you, helps the relationship. Sometimes it tells you when to leave the relationship.

Those three types of readings are what I am going to focus on with my astrology service. There are more but like Hilda I don’t know nor want to do it all. No one can do all that astrology has to offer.

Robert Hand, a famous astrologer, was asked “What is best Vedic or Western Astrology?” and he replied, “Which is best French or German?”

There are progressed charts, moving a birth chart forward so you end up with a different birth chart the older you get. There are charts that change when you move east or west of where you were born, those are relocation charts. There are all sorts of different “house” systems, the 12 sections of the astrology wheel. Now people are adding in the astroids. No one can do it all and I’m not going to even try.

People want to know about three things for the most part: Health, Love and Money, and not necessarily in that order. Of the people I know personally they also want to know about their spiritual path, inner growth, but we are in San Francisco after all so that is to be expected.

So I have been building an astrology section. I sent out 8 requests for testimonials from people I’ve done readings for recently. It would be wonderful if they all replied, “Oh she’s spooky wonderful.” as opposed to what my son always tells his male friends, “She’ll make you cry.”

Shhhh, don’t tell them that. Even if it is true they don’t need to know that ahead of time. I don’t set out to make men weep. It just happens. Sometimes I weep while doing a reading because some things are sad. People’s misunderstanding of the folks they are involved with make me weep.

Now some folks would ask, and have, “What makes you so good as an astrologer? Word has it you’re as broke as the 10 Commandments.” Well if money were a measure of inner peace then we’d have a common ground to begin a debate, but it isn’t.

I’m such a good astrologer I survived my life with a difficult chart. I have never been shot or done time in jail. I can go through hard times and come out the other end feeling centered, holding no grudges, and being able to look foward with hope and faith. That’s how good I am as an astrologer.

For example, I got a harsh bit of news today, some financial thing that seemed overwhelming. At first I trembled, made a couple of phone calls to the right people, had a good cry, then I did my transits. My transits say this is a good time to communicate with people about what I’m doing. It’s a good time to make a change in my life that makes what I do more in line with who I am. That it’s a good time to start a new venture. My transits told me basically, “Do not let THE FEAR hold you back, because there’s good times ahead.” I believe it. So I’m feeling centered again. Instead of biting my finger nails until I looked like the Venus de Milo I worked on building my astrology section, sent out requests for testimonials, send 13 files to Israel in a continuation of a two grown son astrology reading for my girlfriend.

Instead of being afraid of my future I dive into my future like Esther Williams. Oh that reference dates me, doesn’t it?

I’m going to wait for the testimonials to come in before uploading the astrology section to my website, but this is a head’s up for my website visitors. You’ve known me for years as a provider of free polymer clay tutorials. You’ve known me as a team leader for the volunteers who tend to CITY-o-Clay. You might have met me on tour in 2001, 2002 and 2007. So I’m not a stranger to you. Maybe knowing someone first, as a fellow artist, as a fellow group member, might make getting an astrology reading a little less scary. I hope so.

I’m going to continue to nurture the ClayMates at CITY-o-Clay. I’m going to continue to work on the e-commerce section of my website to sell my stuff so I can continue to provide free tutorials for the public. Now I’m going to add another service I offer to my website visitors and that is as an astrologer.

January 22nd, 2010

I got Tweet

Yeah, I'm a little late on the uptake, but I'm now tweet.

Yeah, I'm a little late on the uptake, but I'm now tweet.

Ok, as part of the process of biting the social networking bullet I started a twitter account. I was watching the “Hope for Haiti Now” telethon, very moving by the way, and they showed the “Twitter map” where they can see what topics are being tweeted and such all. I got curious about it and googled “twitter map” and got some java script 3D earth globe with some kawaii looking icons tweeting around the world and I thought, “That’s not what I’m looking for.”


Then I saw the link “join twitter”.  (cue hypnotic music)

FaceBook already makes me crazy with limiting me to 240 characters for the status update. Twitter limits folks to 140 characters. One’s profile blurb was 160 characters. I got mine in under that amount, but really, can I restrict my comments to 140 characters? Then I thought, sure if part of the character count is a tiny/url to a longer ramble or blog post. Brilliant!

I’m not the first one to think of this, obviously. It was just the first time it occurred to me.

I don’t have a mobile phone and it took me a while to realize that one can have a twitter account and do updates and all that through the computer. Again, forgive me for being a little slow on the uptake here about twitter access, but I’m figuring it out now.

There is this widget one can add to a webpage that shows twitter updates and I put one on my home page, after three exchanges it grew and grew, yikes! I didn’t know it would do that so I moved it to the bottom of my home page and if it grows anymore it’ll be consigned to it’s own webpage or a side bar of this blog, or something. It reminded me of an “I Love Lucy” episode where she tries to make bread and it gets out of hand.

Ok, check off the list: Join Twitter, find favorite authors and follow, check who favorite authors are following and follow some of them. Nifty trick that. Add everyone that can be found through my yahoo contacts, a dozen, and follow them. Eva was the first to reply and she’s waving and laughing at me. She also wonders how I will contain myself to 140 characters. Oh God Bless tiny/urls. Added the twitter link to FaceBook, got the twitter app for FaceBook, check check check. Added widget to home page, Yikes, move it to where it can expand without impacting on everything there. Add twitter link to my “off website links”, which is growing all the time:
Twitter, MySpace, FaceBook, My You-Tube / Flickr / OOSOOM, Voila!

check check and double check. Now post a blog about it. Okie Dokie I think I got all my twitter links and cross links in a row.

January 21st, 2010

01212010

Waterhouse-Ulysses-&-Sirens

My niece Ivy pointed out today’s date to me. I figured it’s a good a time as any to post to this blog.

My energies have been directed towards doing a lot of astrology lately. When we had our December crisis I picked up a couple of astrology readings. I’m self taught. There are a lot of things within astrology that I don’t know about but I learned something from polymer clay. You don’t have to know it all. You don’t have to do it all. You need to know the basics, find a niche you feel comfortable with, and go from there.

So my niche with astrology is doing birth charts and talking to folks  about their transits. Transits are planets overhead currently impact on someone’s birth chart. I tell folks it’s knowing what sort of emotional or psychological landscape you’re walking through. It helps to know if a big energy wave is heading your way and how you can make the best of it.

I found that when I do readings in person if I keep the “astrologese” down to a dull roar it’s better for the visitor. If they want to know where I saw x-y-z, or why I think thus and such might be in effect, I’ll point it out on the chart with transiting planets. But most people don’t ask where or why, they just want to know how to get a grip on their life at this time.

It’s weird though, this shift in my own energies. For 10 years I’ve been doing art, obsessed with sharing my process of discovery on my website, hosting the yahoo groups, and now it’s like I’m being lured elsewhere.

I feel distracted. It took me almost three weeks to update my website for the turn of the month and the turn of the year. I only have one new section up for January. I’ve been less active with the clay art group but I’ve been fairly active in Astrol-CITY.

When I’m going through a change, it’s ok with me. It’s letting other people know that I won’t be available, or as active, or doing what they have grown accustomed for me to do. I’m fine with the change. I keep on thinking of the ClayMates, the visitors to my website. How will they handle it? Then I thought, may as well tell them what’s going on, so here we are.

I have to follow the siren’s call. I have more years invested in astrology than I do with polymer clay.  I have not put away my polymer clay or packed up my tools. I’m still involved but at a different pace. I’m making inventory to sell as opposed to making things to show other people how to make things.

If I fall across a technique that is new to me I’ll share that, no worries. I’m simply using the techniques I’ve figured out so far with the things I’m making to sell. There is no new ground I am covering with regards to polymer clay. I’m comfortable with that. I know I don’t have to master every polymer clay technique that’s out there.  As for web content, there are a lot of my free tutorials that most casual visitors have not yet seen, I’ll betcha. I know that for a fact via the stats.

The ClayMates have learned to amuse themselves at CITY-o-Clay , that groups was never supposed to be the “NoraJean Show”. They are responsible for nurturing their own community. I’m not gone, I’m still doing admin behind the scenes, I’m just not posting as much. When I do post I make sure it’s not a one line “thank you Mary” but a post with a bunch of links addressing a technique, or directing them to another website with interesting stuff, or a ramble about life and such all. Quality over quantity.

I can’t feel bad about the change that is taking place. Just as I can’t regret my marriage fading, heading into the divorce, or any of it, because it’s God’s will, after all. My job is to make the best of it with as much calm as I can muster.

So there it is then. My post for 01212010.

January 8th, 2010

We survived

This is a short note to say that with the help of friends we are going to survive January.

I want to thank all the ClayMates and StarGazers who contributed to my survival. I will be able to renew the webhost for a year and that benefits norajean.com, norajean-designs.com, and city-lists.com.

I have not asked if I could name those who contributed so I won’t at this time but let it be known that the contributions ranged from $10 to $500, and they came from Israel, Holland, and all around the USA. I appreciate it more than I can express.

December was difficult for my son who works in construction, but he has found a new construction crew to work with. His girlfriend got the administrative hold on her unemployment cleared up. I was able to pick up some astrology reading jobs.  But these things wouldn’t have come in soon enough to keep us from losing our apartment.

I was preparing for the worst and hoping for the best. To take a tumble in this recession would have meant we would have never gotten back to where we are now. I’ve had this rent control apartment for over 20 years. Losing the landline phone would mean all the accounts connected to my pacbell email address AND my yahoo email address would have gone belly up. The website would have blinked out of existence. My chance of opening an e-commerce web section would have evaporated. My credit is ruined because of not being able to find work in and student loans going into default, so getting a job (which now requires a credit check to even get temporary employment) or applying for another apartment (which requires a credit check) would have been out of the question. It would have taken years to get some semblance of normality. By then I’d be old enough to apply for early retirement with Social Security.

The prospects were grim. To hang on during the gap in cash flow was not only important to me and my immediate family, but also to the volunteers of CITY-Lists, the ClayMates at CITY-o-Clay, and all the people who come to my website for free polymer clay tutorials.

Some people have asked, “Why don’t  you get a divorce, sue your ex-husband for spousal support?” It takes money to file for divorce. If anyone wants to donate $465 for me to file then I will sue for spousal support. I am entitled to 40% of his income. He keeps on promising to pay for the filing but I know if he does then I’m not going to see a penny of spousal support. But what can one do without the funds to defend oneself in court? All that mental wrangling was less important than getting food on the table, keeping the electricity going, maintaining internet access and paying the rent. We can’t even think about luxuries like getting our teeth cleaned, getting a new prescription for my eyeglasses. I hold my breath and pray that I don’t get sick because my ex-husband has cut my medical benefits.

So we will survive January, thanks to the help of so many who came to my aid. I am working daily on getting my e-commerce inventory made, doing astrology chart readings, picking up what work I can find. My son and his girlfriend are doing all they can and we ate eggs and toast on Christmas and were glad we had that. Know that we are doing all we can to keep afloat so your contributions would not be given in vain.

December 5th, 2009

Coming up for air

December 5, 2009

It’s been a while since I added a post to this blog. I got involved with FaceBook

Nora Jean Gatine | Facebook

for a bit and now that I’ve gotten the hang of it, anchored the FB and MySpace accounts for my current name and the name I am planning to return to, I feel I can get back into my old routine of doing clay, making tutorials and adding content to my website and this blog here.

What I’ve been doing, for what seems like forever, is filing cured beads on skewers in preparation for wet sanding. It does speed up the time for wet sanding but I had so many skewers of cured beads and all the ones that were left to do are the itty bitty beads. I love them once they are done but post cure processing is a PITA.

After letting go of CableTV I’ve found http://www.clicker.com and they have all of Babylon 5. I was watching them on Hulu, http://www.hulu.com but there was only season 1 and 2 and I thought, “Well rats..” then I checked clicker.com and the other seasons were there. So, filing beads and half watching Babylon 5 has been my past time since Thanksgiving.

I’m still waiting for my soon-to-be ex-husband to file the divorce papers. I want to change my ID, change my name, do all the admin stuff I have to do because he wanted to wander off.  Anyone who wants to invest $500 so I can file the papers would be my first investor in my new endeavors.

Things are peaceful here at home. Even though it has been tight financially we have been happy because the Chi is flowing better in the apartment. My astrologer, Charlie, came over for Thanksgiving and he said he can tell that there’s a big difference now: more space and no smoking in the apartment. “You lost weight. You look healthy and happier.” Charlie said. It’s true, getting dumped has been the best thing to happen to me in a long time.

In November I went to the Day of the Dead celebration at the Mission Cultural Center and the next week I celebrated Amiri Baraka’s 75th birthday at the Jazz Cultural Media Center in the Fillmore. A girlfriend kidded me saying, “Oh once you got the white man out of your crib you can be a colored girl again, huh?” I guess she is right on that count. I’m finding myself again and doing things that I want to do.

One problem with being married to someone who doesn’t like to do things or go places, one feels hesitant to do things or go places alone. What’s the point of having a partner who doesn’t share a life with you?

I realize why I’m not going to be missing him is he never took part in the holidays, birthdays, anniversaries, or any date during the year that could have been special. I lived alone in that regard so now nothing feels missing. I was observing those dates alone and I do it now with family and friends. It’s better this way. There’s no extra psychic drag having someone here who is habitually anti-social and ill humored.

Now it is not an issue. I go where I want, see who I want, do what I want and I’m happier than I’ve been in years. All I need is my legal freedom and go back to my old name of Nora Jean Stone. I put it up for a vote with my family and friends which name I should go back to and more people know me as Stone than as Brummett, which is my maiden name. I couldn’t decide so putting it up for a popular vote seemed the thing to do.

Since there hasn’t been anything particularly exciting, other than getting used to exploiting FaceBook for exposure as an astrologer and metaphysician, I’ve not posted. This post is to let y’all know I’m doing ok in spite of a rough 2009. I look forward to the new year with hope and enthusiasm. I just need that divorce and it will be perfect.

November 6th, 2009

Live without Cable TV

New Use for TV sets

New Use for TV sets

Cable TV was the latest expense that had to be cut because of these uncertain economic times. Do I miss Cable TV? Frankly I don’t. All my favorite TV series I can see for free online with streaming video: “Lie to me”, “Fringe”, “CSI”, “Warehouse 13″, “Sanctuary”, just to name a few.

Amy, my son’s girlfriend, has a Netflix account for $14 a month and she and Bushyaib order their favorite series en mass, i.e., “Dexter” and anime series the names of which I never can remember.

Then there is the PBS video stream that I discovered and am now able to see whole series like “Art:21″ which is about art in the 21st Century, “Nova” and “Nature” are great series also.

The Learner.org channel has “The Western Tradition” the 52 episode lecture series with the late Dr. Eugene Weber, discussing the rise of the western culture. There is “Art in the Western World” and if you want to learn French or other languages they are there too, free for the streaming.

I was wondering if other people are letting go of cable TV for online streaming to save money and I found this article.

Cutting the Cable: Can Internet Replace Your TV?

It is obviously a sign of the times.

So Bushyaib and Amy took the cable box back to the Comcast office. It is our intention to pay the bill when we have the money, but with Amy having lost her job and Bushyaib not having construction work for a couple of weeks, money has been more than tight.

So it looks like giving up cable TV after the switch from analog to digital signals isn’t such a bad situation as I thought it might be.  I was chatting with Jen in Austin, TX, on FaceBook and she doesn’t have cable TV either. She said that she didn’t want to be held to someone else’s schedule when watching her favorite shows. I can see now how that is a nice thing. I can watch the programs I like when I have free time to do so. That is usually very late while I’m doing something that doesn’t take my full attention, like wet sanding beads.

The other benefit is being able to avoid mass hysteria that the “news” tends to propogate. I read my news online and can get in depth reporting that one cannot get on the nightly news. I can pick and choose which news article I want to read. I am not missing the redundent news generated by a 24/7 news cycle.

The TV programs that are not streamed online I just don’t miss. They are going to have to “get it” that forcing people to watch commercial or cable networks isn’t going to cut it in the age of the internet viewer.

Lastly, the commercials on streaming video, if there are any, are mercifully shorter, 30 seconds at the most. I can pause the video stream and go get a heater for my cup of tea or put clay in or take clay out of the oven.

I realized that I didn’t have a picture to add to this blog post so I grabbed some photos online and did a bit of photoshop with them. Another thing to do when you’re not watching TV or streaming video, do something else, something creative. I’m so totally amused and am too much influenced by Monty Python. LOL

October 28th, 2009

word cloud for “Hickey”

http://www.norajean.com/BonsaiTrailercourt/Hickey.htm

Word Cloud for "Hickey" short story

Word Cloud for "Hickey" short story

http://www.wordle.net/

Go to Wordle and create a word cloud for a short story or a whole website. As a writer I find it useful to see what word is being used too much or too little. Plus making a word cloud is just a trippy thing to do.

October 26th, 2009

Nathan G. Phan does Christopher Walken w/rubic cube

I love this guy. He has a half hour YouTube video teaching folks how to do a Christopher Walken impersonation. Tosh.0 featured him on “Asians doing Christopher Walken Impersonations”. This is his rebuttle…

As you all know I am a fan of Christopher Walken

October 25th, 2009

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October 16th, 2009

Busier than a ….

Para-CITY

Para-CITY, where CITYzens can speak about their paranormal experiences and not have rocks thrown at them.

You fill in the blank. My favorite  is “Busier than a one legged man in a butt kicking contest.” But that’s just my Southern Cracker Pappy shining through.

I’ve not posted much as of late because of the flurry of activity with our two new CITY-Lists Yahoo Groups. I mentioned Astrol-CITY on my other blog, and the web section has been fleshed out, for the most part.

The new Yahoo Group is Para-CITY, a group that the focus is on the paranormal. Debbie sent me a bunch of royalty free pictures that hinted at the paranormal and none of them were large enough to use as a picture for our group home page so I made a collage of them instead.

The Para-CITY web section was done in record time because even though Debbie has been thinking about creating this group for a couple of years, when she did finally create it and ask me to be co-owner, I had zero warning. Don’t try to stop a Taurus once she got a mind to do something. So I was up until the wee hours for a couple of days putting together the web section.

Both Astrol-CITYand Para-CITYare open for membership by CITYzens, those members of other CITY-Lists Yahoo Groups, but both Debbie and I have been inviting close personal friends to come join.  If you read this blog but are not part of any of the CITY-Lists Yahoo Groups, and you want to join Astrol-CITYand/or Para-CITY, then when you subscribe state “NoraJean Blog reader and I promise not to be a flame-war-inticing-PITA-Troll.” I’ll hold you to that promise and if you are a PITA I’ll remove you from any and all my groups. Disturb the peace and get the boot, it’s real simple.